Episode 211
Can Film Critics Make Christian Films Better? - with Joseph Holmes
Episode 211 - Can Film Critics Make Christian Films Better? - with Joseph Holmes
This interview is also published in video format. If you prefer to watch it, you can do so here: https://youtu.be/M_OvgvJn-3U
In this episode of the Faith and Family Filmmakers podcast, Matt Chastain talks with New York City-based film critic, screenwriter, and filmmaker Joseph Holmes about the role of film critics, particularly in Christian media, and how thoughtful criticism can help strengthen storytelling. Joseph shares his journey from discussing movies and theology with his family as a pastor’s kid to becoming a professional critic, writing for outlets like Religion Unplugged, and co-hosting The Overthinkers. They explore the sometimes complicated relationship between filmmakers and critics, why both ultimately share a love of storytelling, and how filmmakers can better understand critics’ perspectives to improve their work. The conversation also examines the growth and challenges of Christian filmmaking, the influence of familiar formulas and audience expectations, and the importance of authentic storytelling. Joseph shares examples of faith-based films he has praised and criticized, and what filmmakers can learn from them.
Highlights Include:
- Why Film Critics Matter
- Meet Joseph Holmes
- A Pastor's Kid Approach to Film Theology
- Critic vs Filmmaker Tension
- How to Critic-Proof Your Film
- What Critics Really Do
- Critics and Grumbling
- Christian Criticism Reflex
- Why Christian Films Struggle
- Audience and Formula Trap
- Great vs Bad Examples
- Where to Find Joseph
Bio:
Joseph Holmes is an NYC-based award-winning film critic, culture critic, and screenwriter who's spent over ten years making and writing about film and culture in Christian and non-Christian spaces. He's written for Forbes, Christianity Today, World Magazine, Relevant Magazine, First Things, Religion Unplugged, and has been the co-host of the award-winning Overthinkers podcast since its beginnings in 2020. He wrote and directed the feature film Jim vs the Future, which is available on DVD and streaming on Amazon, Tubi, YouTube, and more.
Links:
https://www.josephholmesstudios.com/
https://linktr.ee/JosephHolmes
Video Edited by Jacob Henson
The Faith & Family Filmmakers podcast helps filmmakers who share a Christian worldview stay in touch, informed, and inspired. We interview experts from varying fields of filmmaking; from screenwriters, actors, directors, and producers, to film scorers, talent agents, and distributors.
If you would like to support the production of this podcast, you can do so at https://www.faffpodcast.com/support
Get Email Notifications: https://faffpodcast.com/email
Enter the Faith & Family Filmmakers Awards festival: https://filmfreeway.com/FAFFawards
FAFF Association Weekly Zoom Meetups for Filmmakers: https://www.faffassociation.com/events
Jaclyn's Book - In the Beginning, Middle and End: A Screenwriter’s Observations of LIfe, Character, and God: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0D9R7XS9V
Produced by Geoffrey Whitt for Faith and Family Filmmakers Association https://www.faffassociation.com/
Faith and Family Filmmakers Association is sponsored by Rediscover Television https://www.rediscoverfamily.tv/
Copyright 2024 Ivan Ann Productions
Transcript
You know, guys, when I was a kid, I'm old enough to remember Saturday
Matt:mornings turning on the television as a little young film buff, um,
Matt:watching Siskel and Ebert, the most famous film critics in the world.
Matt:You know, sometimes you loved what they had to say.
Matt:You really loved when they disagreed and got all mad at
Matt:each other about a, about a film.
Matt:You really loved when a film that everybody else
Matt:appreciated, they kinda missed.
Matt:Uh, so film critics, they've got, I, I think, a role even though it
Matt:may be sometimes a little bit of a, uh, of a fight, some hard feelings
Matt:between filmmakers and critics.
Matt:The film critics certainly have a role in the film industry, and we are,
Matt:uh, blessed today to be joined on the
Matt:Faith and Family Filmmakers podcast, by Joseph Holmes.
Matt:Uh, Joseph, thank you so much for joining us today.
Joseph:Thank you.
Joseph:Yeah, I'm, I'm just old enough, getting old enough where saying I'm old enough
Joseph:to remember isn't funny anymore.
Joseph:It's just true.
Joseph:It can be true of some things.
Joseph:So yes.
Joseph:Um- Yeah, well, wait till you
Matt:get as much gray in your beard as I got.
Matt:That's, uh, that's when you'll really
Joseph:feel it.
Joseph:But no, I'm really happy.
Joseph:I, I really appreciate you having me on.
Joseph:It's, uh, you know, I, I really appreciate what you do keeping the
Joseph:conversation about faith and film going.
Joseph:It's an important one.
Matt:Just a bunch of film nerds having conversations about film things, exactly.
Matt:I wanna, to kinda t- give everybody a little bit of your background so
Matt:they can kinda understand who you are.
Matt:You're an award-winning New York City-based film critic.
Matt:You're a culture critic and a screenwriter.
Matt:You've spent over 10 years making and writing about film and culture in both
Matt:Christian and non-Christian spaces.
Matt:You've written for, uh, publications like Forbes, Christianity Today,
Matt:World Magazine, Relevant Magazine, First Things, Religion Unplugged,
Matt:and you've been the co-host of the award-winning podcast Overthinkers,
Matt:which has been out for, like, six years.
Matt:So you, you've, you've done the grind.
Matt:You understand the grind.
Matt:Uh, you've, you've also, and let's just keep the pitchforks away a little bit so
Matt:he understands where we're coming from, Joseph did, uh, w- was the, the writer
Matt:and director of the feature film Jim vs.
Matt:the Future, and it's available on DVD and streaming on Amazon,
Matt:Tubi, YouTube, and more.
Matt:So I'm gonna start off, you know, I'm embarrassed to do this to a fellow
Matt:podcaster 'cause it's probably the most boring and lazy question, but
Matt:necessary because the answer is more interesting than the question usually.
Matt:Uh, tell us about your background and how you became a film critic.
Joseph:Totally, yeah.
Joseph:I feel like I, I, I talk enough about my background in, in these things that
Joseph:I realize it's kind of, I didn't have a choice in the matter to become a film
Joseph:critic in the, the Christian religious space because my dad was a pastor
Joseph:and one of our favorite ways to…
Joseph:He was, you know, very busy being a pastor.
Joseph:It's a full-time job and, and sometimes if you have a rectory you, it's even
Joseph:off hours, there's no off hours.
Joseph:You get knocks at the door.
Joseph:But when we did have family time, one of the things we loved to do was watch
Joseph:movies together and then talk about them and discuss the theology of them.
Joseph:My, mom and dad were both theology nerds.
Joseph:And so whatever it was, if we were watching, again, I'm old enough
Joseph:to remember watching Bedknobs and Broomsticks, which is an old Disney film
Joseph:and it's about witches versus Nazis.
Joseph:And, you know, we would, talk about the whole idea of, well, you know, this is
Joseph:something that, you know, Disney didn't quite get right based on, you know,
Joseph:correct theology or stuff like that, but this is something that kind of, that
Joseph:does work and this is what we appreciate, this is what we like, this is what…
Joseph:So, like, this whole idea of appreciating movies but then also picking them apart
Joseph:into their component parts and saying, "This was good, this was not good.
Joseph:This is something that aligns with what we believe to be true and this is what
Joseph:doesn't align Was something that was just fun, normal family time for me growing up.
Joseph:And so it makes a lot of sense that I grew up in a, you know, I got, you
Joseph:know, into college and I started, you know, trying to make my, you know,
Joseph:way kind of in what do I want to do.
Joseph:And I, I wanted to make movies, but I started, you know, a YouTube channel and
Joseph:then a blog that got, you know, where I could talk about movies and sort of break
Joseph:them down in an analytical way because that cost significantly less money than,
Joseph:you know, making a whole, whole movie.
Joseph:So I was doing the, the short films and things, but I was
Joseph:also doing this other thing.
Joseph:And then I went to the King's College in New York City and my, my professors
Joseph:and, and, and classmates started, you know, together partly a, a online
Joseph:magazine called Religion Unplugged, and then they said to me a- after a
Joseph:conversation we had, they're like, "You know, Joseph, the stuff you're doing right
Joseph:now for free, we will pay you to do."
Joseph:And so I was like, "Dude, you know, sign me up." And so, and from there it's
Joseph:like, oh, I know friends at, you know, other places might like this stuff too.
Joseph:And so I was like… It's just sort of snowballed from there.
Joseph:People really appreciated, you know, my breakdowns of films that
Joseph:fell into the religious space.
Joseph:But also, you know, of Hollywood films that I had dealt with faith
Joseph:or not, you know, just more broadly.
Joseph:And people appreciate them or got mad at them, uh, with, with, uh, uh,
Joseph:somewhat, and usually both at the same time, uh, with some frequency.
Joseph:And so yeah, it just became something that people… that it really could parlay
Joseph:into… I tell people I feel like I'm running the, the best con in the world.
Joseph:I've somehow tricked people into paying me to do what I was doing for free,
Joseph:which is watching movies and giving my educated and uneducated opinions on them.
Matt:I mean, that's the dream job, right?
Matt:Yes.
Matt:Anybody who says, "I'm doing what I would do for free, but somehow they're
Matt:paying me, and I can afford a, a place in New York City out of it," that
Matt:sounds like a pretty good deal to me.
Joseph:Yeah, absolutely.
Joseph:And so I still, again, throughout that, you know, was able to, you know, meet
Joseph:other, you know, Christian filmmakers.
Joseph:And so I got my, my, um- Um, one of my short films, All God's Children,
Joseph:got into the International Film Festival, and then I met there Nathan
Joseph:Clarkson, who was starring in another faithatbased film, and then we started
Joseph:a podcast together, The Overthinkers.
Joseph:And we've then worked together, I've worked together on some of his
Joseph:films, and he's worked, was producer and actor in my Jim Vs The Future
Joseph:feature and some of my short films.
Joseph:So I've been able to kind of have both sides of it, and you'll make…
Joseph:And I, I think this is important.
Joseph:I'm not saying every film critic has to make movies, but I do think that it is
Joseph:really easy to just comment on culture and not try to actually make culture.
Joseph:And say like, "You know, this is how people should make movies,"
Joseph:and then not try to say, "Well, here's a vision for how it can be
Joseph:done as well to move that forward."
Matt:Yeah, I can see how it would give you some empathy for the process and
Matt:make you a better film critic, honestly.
Matt:Right?
Joseph:Absolutely.
Matt:Well, let's talk about this tension you kind of alluded to a little
Matt:bit, people love you or they hate you.
Matt:I mean, I will admit it, as a filmmaker myself, if you say nice
Matt:things about my film, I love you, but if you don't, I'm a fight you.
Matt:We're gonna fight in the parking lot, right?
Matt:You're telling me my baby's ugly, and that's, that's probably not
Matt:the perspective I should have.
Matt:But, you know, filmmakers, uh, filmmakers accuse critics of overthinking at
Matt:times, if you see what I did there.
Matt:So just talk a little bit about that tension and kind of your
Matt:unique perspective having done both.
Joseph:Yeah.
Joseph:I think the thing about both film critics and filmmakers that we both
Joseph:have in common is the fact that we love movies and we love storytelling,
Joseph:and we love the way that storytelling can, and beauty is expressed in film.
Joseph:I mean, one of the things that… You know, we could be doing something else.
Joseph:It's much cheaper to just write a book.
Joseph:You know, and I could make a lot more money.
Joseph:I live in New York, I could make a lot more money doing a lot of
Joseph:things than writing about movies.
Joseph:Um- Go, go work on Wall Street.
Joseph:Yeah, exactly.
Joseph:You know, so I think that, you know, we share that love of movies, and we
Joseph:share the love of, of that storytelling.
Joseph:But it is two sides of the different coin, which is like you said, when you're making
Joseph:something, you are creating something that you're putting out in the world.
Joseph:It is your, your, your baby, and you see, when your child is going
Joseph:out in the world, you see all of the stuff that you put into it, and
Joseph:you see everything it means to you.
Joseph:But you do have to put your… bring your child out in the world
Joseph:to be socialized by other people who don't have that same affection.
Joseph:And if you don't, you know, one of the things that they're finding in
Joseph:so much research right now is one of the reasons that people have
Joseph:such anxiety and depression, uh, is because of the trend of safetyism
Joseph:in parenting, where they didn't…
Joseph:They kind of kept their children too close and didn't let them socialize
Joseph:out in the world and make mistakes when it was safe to do so as a kid.
Joseph:And I think that there's, there is that tension as a, as a f- a creator, as
Joseph:a, and a parent of this product to not actually let other people see the truth
Joseph:of it or say the truth of it because we have this, bring all this context to it.
Joseph:And I did this myself.
Joseph:Again, I had put my movie out in the world, and people just, you know,
Joseph:people ripped it apart, you know?
Joseph:And I, I put it, you know, I mean, again, the f- the first time I, you
Joseph:know, hit refresh on a film critic, I was just like, "Oh, is it, where
Joseph:is it?" You know, I, the, the amount of cringe I felt was, was very harsh.
Joseph:But that definitely gives me empathy, having done that so long, you know,
Joseph:gives me a lot of empathy for that.
Joseph:But the thing is, every time I listened to somebody about what was wrong with it, it
Joseph:made me better And it made the film better
Matt:Amen.
Joseph:And I think that a lot of times I, tell people, like, "You know, you
Joseph:should talk to film critics earlier in the process because then you have that benefit
Joseph:of like, oh, the film's not already made.
Joseph:You have time to fix some things." But I think that that's the issue is that film
Joseph:criticism is the part where we actually say, "Hey, let's actually take a look at
Joseph:what's not actually reflecting the truth and beauty of God in this so that we have
Joseph:more things that exist in the world that reflect the truth and beauty of God."
Joseph:Because that's what, es- particularly as Christians, we believe… I think even
Joseph:secular people, they wouldn't put it that way, but that's what they wa- the truth
Joseph:and beauty of, of the world and reality of human experience they would say.
Joseph:Of the
Matt:universe,
Joseph:man.
Joseph:Of the universe.
Joseph:Yes, exactly.
Joseph:Whatever, whatever you wanna…
Joseph:But because of our sin and because of just of our biases, we can't always see
Joseph:the truth of the things we make, and that's why God gave us the church is so
Joseph:that we, you know, w- we aren't just on our own figuring this out on our own.
Joseph:Other people can point out our blind spots.
Joseph:And so being a film critic is just a way to kind of build that into the
Joseph:professional side of the world so that somebody can be dedicated that this
Joseph:is their job to be able to notice the things that are wrong and notice the
Joseph:things that are good, and they can dedicate the time to it, and it can
Joseph:become an expertise so that, you know, somebody out there can say, "This is…"
Joseph:For, for audiences, you know, "This is a way… that this is not
Joseph:worth your time. This is not gonna actually benefit you," because you
Joseph:have, again, you're, you have lives.
Joseph:You know, this is, you know, you actually deserve to have someone
Joseph:tell you, "This is worth your time.
Joseph:This is not worth your time." And then also to filmmakers,
Joseph:we'll say, "You know what?
Joseph:This is not representing truth and beauty in the world, and
Joseph:maybe you should get another job.
Joseph:Or if you wanna keep doing this, maybe this is a way that you can grow and be
Joseph:better." And I'll say this again, I don't have proof of this, but one of the things
Joseph:that's been amazingly wonderful for me to watch is since I've been a, a kid, I've
Joseph:watched Christian filmmakers actually implement the criticisms that have
Joseph:been made of Christian filmmaking- Yeah
Joseph:and the films have gotten objectively better even by the standards of
Joseph:the Christian film audience that enjoyed those movies previously.
Joseph:They're like, "Wow, The Chosen is just so much better than Flywheel." You
Joseph:know, the, the- … it's, you know, you can… And, and that's funny,
Joseph:but, like, you just could watch the trajectory is like these- Oh, 100%.
Joseph:And I think it's partly, you know, I talked to Andy Erwin about this, um, at
Joseph:Religion Unplugged, and he said- Look, you know, we were not coming through Hollywood
Joseph:or being trained by Hollywood people.
Joseph:We started out on our own figuring out.
Joseph:We didn't know what we didn't know.
Joseph:And so part of it is just practice and doing it, but part of this
Joseph:is inevitably getting feedback.
Joseph:And, you know, I feel privileged to be able to have s- have given the,
Joseph:this kind of feedback for a long time that I, you know… And again, I've
Joseph:only been doing this for 10 years.
Joseph:There are many people who've been at this longer than I have.
Joseph:To be able to help along the way, give the feedback that makes the art better.
Joseph:Now it's, again, like Paul Schrader, who wrote Taxi Driver, saying I-
Joseph:The Chosen is a beautiful work of filmmaking that, you know, that gives
Joseph:him, feels like an encounter with Jesus.
Joseph:And that's an incredible thing.
Joseph:That's always been a big part of the goal of any kind of, you know,
Joseph:Christians within the art world.
Joseph:So that's kind of how I balance.
Joseph:I see it as there's making culture, and then there's holding culture
Joseph:accountable so that it can be the best version of itself that does
Joseph:the best version of the world.
Joseph:So I don't see us as adversaries.
Joseph:I see us as on the same team, just in different roles.
Matt:I agree.
Matt:And, and your motivation and then the reason you do what you do makes all
Matt:the sense in the world, totally fair.
Matt:Uh, w- one point you made that I think needs to be underlined is that y- y-
Matt:you wouldn't call the same, someone doing the same job at a different part
Matt:in the process a, a film critic, right?
Matt:So if I've, I've written a script, y- you've got to have that tr- development
Matt:producer, and that could be a, a, a critic like you who comes in and
Matt:rips your script apart in order not to, not to hurt you, not, not to kill
Matt:your baby, but to help you find every way that you can make it better.
Matt:And if you do that intensely at the beginning, at the scriptwr- the
Matt:screenwriting process, and with the right development producer, and I argue with one
Matt:development producer, not, don't send this out to 17 different people because you're
Matt:gonna get 17 different perspectives.
Matt:17 different responses.
Matt:But if you have the right development producer who's able
Matt:to walk you through this, the…
Matt:I've, I once wrote a script in a month and a half, and then it took 18 months
Matt:of development before it was ready, the draft nine was actually ready to go
Matt:raise a million bucks to make the movie.
Matt:That's the secret.
Matt:Now, you do that, and then the critics are going to reflect that later rather
Matt:than re- reflecting what the development producer reflected on your first draft.
Joseph:Yeah, exactly.
Matt:now Geoffrey saw, this is an interesting point too for me, Geoffrey saw
Matt:your talk, How to Critic-Proof Your Film.
Matt:I wanna get into that a little bit.
Matt:You know, he said it was absolutely riveting.
Matt:As, and now as a filmmaker, I'm a little torn and hesitant.
Matt:I, I don't know whether great filmmakers should make their
Matt:films, you know, for critics or really even honestly for audiences.
Matt:You know, you listen to Tarantino talk about his films, that he
Matt:makes them for an audience of one.
Matt:He makes them for himself, right?
Matt:But he also happens to have amazing taste in film.
Matt:Um, so a lot of us like what he likes and, and that's what makes
Matt:him, I think, such a unique auteur.
Matt:But, you know, is it possible that, you know, that's just
Matt:one way to make a great film?
Matt:Maybe there are filmmakers who are blessed with the gift of storytelling
Matt:whom maybe they're not blessed with Tarantino's level of taste, or
Matt:Nolan, and, and they should at least understand what critics are looking for.
Matt:So how, you know, how do we square that kind of artistic individualism
Matt:with the reality that we actually have to make good movies if we
Matt:want people to enjoy them and, and understanding a critic's standards
Matt:might actually be a useful tool in that?
Joseph:Yeah.
Joseph:It depends on what question you're trying to answer.
Joseph:Because I think there's a lot of Christians who they see their movies
Joseph:that they enjoy, and filmmakers who are Christian who make movies, and they get
Joseph:these, you know, bad, critical reviews.
Joseph:And one of the things they ask, "Well, is why is this?
Joseph:Is it because they're biased against Christians?
Joseph:Is it because it's just not for them?
Joseph:Is it…" And so part of my talk is to just say, "Here is where critics
Joseph:are coming from with this." And you can understand where critics are
Joseph:coming from and then decide, "Well, I don't care about that." And that's
Joseph:fine, but it's good to understand, well, this is maybe a good reason
Joseph:why a critic might not like your film because of the perspective he's coming
Joseph:from, and this is maybe a bad reason.
Joseph:And the question then becomes, what do you do with that information?
Joseph:But I still think that that information is helpful.
Skip:Agree.
Joseph:For example, one of the things that I, you know… Because I, and I
Joseph:say this, I understand the whole making it for yourself thing, and there's
Joseph:a very big part of, like, Jim vs.
Joseph:the Future, I made it for myself, This is the kind of thing that I wish
Joseph:existed in the world in many respects, given, you know, the limitations I had.
Joseph:And I think that that's really good and valuable, and I think you should
Joseph:at least make it for yourself as well.
Joseph:But I also think people are not, we don't live in an island.
Joseph:You are making this to be shown somewhere.
Matt:Yeah.
Joseph:You're not making this to lock it away.
Joseph:You are making it for people to see.
Joseph:There's this great, in this, uh, book by, uh, I think it's Sherman Alexie,
Joseph:the short story, um, uh, what was it?
Joseph:What It Means to Say Phoenix, Arizona.
Joseph:He actually gives this image of this storyteller who nobody listens to his
Joseph:stories, and it's one of those tragic images because he's just telling
Joseph:stories and everyone's ignoring him.
Joseph:And I think that speaks to the fact that there's, you know, uh, in the telos of
Joseph:art, there is this need for an audience.
Joseph:There's somebody to tell and somebody to listen.
Joseph:And so I think that, y- I think that we're never going to not make it for
Joseph:other people to some degree, and I think that given that there is a relationship
Joseph:between the artist and the audience, relate-- God tells us we need to love
Joseph:the people we have a relationship with.
Joseph:And so I think that by definition, you should try to build some love and
Joseph:empathy for your audience, and one of your audiences is the film critic.
Joseph:Maybe it's not your most important audience.
Joseph:It probably shouldn't be your most important audience, but it is an audience.
Joseph:And so if it is being made to some degree for them, then understanding
Joseph:them and where they're coming from, I think, is important.
Joseph:So- The first thing, for example, this is something I
Joseph:gave as an example in the talk.
Joseph:One of the reasons that critics oftentimes will, give a different rating
Joseph:or review than an audience member or someone else is because we just see
Joseph:a lot more movies, and that's just a perspective of film critics that other
Joseph:people, it's useful to understand.
Joseph:So sometimes we will give a film a lower rating because it's like
Joseph:I've seen this a bunch of times before, and I might be bored of it.
Joseph:But even more importantly, I've seen this done 10 times better in
Joseph:five or seven other places, and so I'm comparing it to those things.
Joseph:It's hard for me to be as impressed with Michael when I have seen Walk the Line.
Joseph:Now, I didn't think that Michael was terribly bad, but I've seen Walk the
Joseph:Line, and it does what Michael's doing so much better that I'm always gonna
Joseph:have a lower grade for that movie.
Joseph:Again, that doesn't make me and my opinion better, but it does
Joseph:give some perspective to it.
Joseph:One of the things that I will often tell filmmakers is, "Do you
Joseph:want to critic-proof your film?
Joseph:One of the things you can do is just watch a lot of movies that are doing the things
Joseph:that you're trying to do in your movie." So for example, one of my… I actually
Joseph:made this my top, uh, faithatbased film of 2025, was not a Christian film.
Joseph:It was a Jewish action film called Guns and Moses.
Joseph:And one of the… No, seriously.
Joseph:it's a really good film, it's about a, a rabbi who, you know,
Joseph:solves a mystery in his synagogue.
Joseph:I agree.
Joseph:And it's a great movie.
Joseph:And what… I interviewed the director, writer, and one of the things he said
Joseph:is that he was trying to do this kind of action thriller, o- old Hitchcockian type.
Joseph:And so he spent an entire year with his wife watching those kind of movies.
Joseph:And so I'm not saying you have to spend a whole year watching a movie a day in
Joseph:that genre, but one of the reasons that he understood the genre so well and could
Joseph:also, you know, do his own version of it that's, that doesn't embarrass that genre
Joseph:is 'cause he knew it so incredibly well, and he knew what to compare his work to.
Joseph:And, and that, I think, is, like, that's not an unfair thing that a
Joseph:filmmaker can say, "Oh, yeah, that is something I can learn from film critics.
Joseph:Maybe if a film critic is judging my work because he's s- seen a bunch of other work
Joseph:that's better, that is a sign I can learn from film critics in this way." Now- On
Joseph:the other hand, sometimes film critics are going to, you know, rate your movie
Joseph:not as well because of demographic issues.
Joseph:Now, it is true you have the, you know, they're not, tend not to be
Joseph:Christian, so they don't resonate with certain things as much.
Joseph:But also, there's the reality of, you know, most Christians tend to be more
Joseph:family-oriented, whereas a lot of critics live in New York City and are single.
Joseph:And so, you know, actually it was funny 'cause I remember I used to be the, one of
Joseph:those people who just pooh-poohed all of the Disney live action remake things all
Joseph:the time and say like, "They're this, you know, soulless, this suck-" It's always…
Joseph:But then I was working at a movie theater and seeing all these families come in
Joseph:to watch these movies, and I looked at it, I said, "You know, I actually
Joseph:get now why they're going to them.
Joseph:the movies are pre-screened ways of having family entertainment with their kids."
Joseph:And so even though I thought, "This is a soulless cash grab," everything like that,
Joseph:I saw what they were looking for from it, so I could actually write for those people
Joseph:and say, "This will give you what you're looking for in this way or not that way.
Joseph:I maybe wish that they would do it in a better way, but-
Matt:It's still a soulless cash grab-
Joseph:It's… But- … but I think you'll enjoy it.
Joseph:I, but I know the purpose that it's serving.
Joseph:And so I think that there are places where… Also, film critics really like
Joseph:movies that are complex enough that they require film critics to explain
Joseph:it to the audience because that makes them feel like they give, gives their
Joseph:life some purpose, um, that they're not an insignificant part of the process.
Joseph:So all I'll say is understanding where the film critic is coming from and why
Joseph:their perspective might differ from yours does help if you're a filmmaker for you to
Joseph:say, "I, you know… Oh, this can actually help me of my work, and this cannot,"
Joseph:and as audiences can help you understand if this film critic is actually gonna
Joseph:be helpful for you in discerning if this is a movie, you know, for you or not.
Joseph:for example, one of the things I said in the talk is that- Film critics and
Joseph:film audiences actually see the job of the film critic very differently.
Joseph:And this is the secret, which is that film audiences think a film critic's
Joseph:job is to tell them what movies they will like, and film critics think
Joseph:the job of film critic is to tell people what films they should like.
Joseph:Because film critics think of movies not just as yummy food, but as healthy food.
Joseph:There's the kinds of foods that actually make you a better person by watching it.
Joseph:And Christians can kind of understand that, 'cause like, yeah,
Joseph:good messages make you better, bad messages make you worse.
Joseph:But in that sense, a film critic will be like, "No, this is
Joseph:going to be healthy for you.
Joseph:It's gonna make you a better person.
Joseph:It's gonna make you a, help you see the world and love things better."
Joseph:And so they kinda want to tell you, even if you don't like this… I
Joseph:was like, you know, the film critics will say, "Minions is a bad movie.
Joseph:You might like it, but it's a bad movie and I, you shouldn't like
Joseph:it and you shouldn't go see it."
Joseph:Whereas they will, you know, see something like Fjord, which actually just came out
Joseph:and I think is actually really excellent, and it's actually… Does one of the
Joseph:best jobs I've ever seen of showing what happens when sort of religious
Joseph:conservatives become the minority and the secular liberal society is like,
Joseph:"Well, we believe in all peoples and all viewpoints, but wait, no, not that one."
Joseph:And it, it, I mean, conservatives, Christians have been trying to
Joseph:make that movie ever since God's Not Dead, and they've all sucked.
Joseph:And this movie finally actually does that story well, pointing out
Joseph:all the hypocrisy that Christians have been trying to point out.
Joseph:And I try to do both of those things in my writing.
Joseph:I try to say, "Here is what it is.
Joseph:Here's why I think it's good or not good, and y- here's why." But also give
Joseph:people enough information on it that they can say, "Well, I know enough about it
Joseph:that I can disagree with you and still think it's the right movie for me."
Joseph:You know?
Joseph:And then, so that's- No, that makes sense … So I try to do both of those things.
Joseph:But it is hard.
Matt:Well, I will say that there was a movie made about 10 years
Matt:ago called Small Group, the movie.
Matt:did a pretty decent job of that.
Matt:Good.
Matt:Not that you have to give a review of that right now if you
Matt:haven't seen it or not, but- I
Joseph:have not seen it, so I will definitely look it up.
Matt:Yeah.
Joseph:I'm always on the lookout for those hidden gems.
Matt:Yeah.
Matt:Well, it's totally self-serving here.
Matt:I made it.
Matt:but y- you bring up a good point here.
Matt:that it sounds like to me what you're saying is that the real goal of a good
Matt:film critic is to share movies that they love with the audience, not the…
Matt:I think the perception is that, the bad film critic is, really enjoys
Matt:telling you what to hate because it makes them feel more pretentious.
Matt:But that's maybe not the case.
Matt:It certainly doesn't sound like the case from you.
Matt:It's more like that friend who's always telling you, "Oh my gosh, have you
Matt:seen the new Christopher Nolan movie?"
Joseph:Yeah.
Joseph:No, absolutely.
Joseph:I mean, I think that, I mean, it's really funny.
Joseph:One of the best portrayals of a film critic I've ever seen
Joseph:was in the movie Ratatouille.
Joseph:Oh, yeah.
Joseph:Which was the food critic- Yeah … who was really a f-
Joseph:w- was really a film critic.
Joseph:Yeah.
Joseph:and, and I think that because it shows both the good and the bad sides of it.
Joseph:Right.
Joseph:Because there is an aspect of being a film critic.
Joseph:And again, like I said, you do not choose to make your, your job writing
Joseph:about movies unless you love movies.
Joseph:But there is a way it can turn sour, like with everything.
Skip:Mm-hmm.
Joseph:I mean, again, we all know the person who, you know, has invested their
Joseph:whole lives into their families, but all they do is complain about their family.
Matt:I'm guilty of that sometimes, honestly.
Joseph:Yeah.
Joseph:We all know the fact that when you know something intimately and you've invested
Joseph:so much into it, oftentimes you can spend most of your time complaining about it.
Joseph:And C.S. Lewis talks about this in The- Great Divorce.
Joseph:He talks about people who get in the habit of grumbling-
Joseph:Mm-hmm … and then become a grumble.
Matt:Mm-hmm.
Joseph:And I don't think that film critics are more likely to become
Joseph:the worst version of themselves, uh, than any other profession.
Joseph:I do think that- For a lot of, I think for a lot of filmmakers,
Joseph:that it's the, the negative reviews hurt because it's their kid.
Joseph:I mean, you know, Seth Rogen did this whole thing where he was like,
Joseph:you know, where he, he said, "P- if film critics, you know, thought that,
Joseph:you know, knew how much it hurt, they would stop doing it." Yeah.
Joseph:You know, he, he cries into his tears in his, you know, third
Joseph:mansion and, you know- Oh, yeah.
Joseph:And, and again, it's one of those things where like I get that, and again, I
Joseph:try not to be a jerk in my reviews.
Joseph:Sometimes I will do kind of what I consider to be kind of male playful
Joseph:teasing, you know, where I, I, I'm, I'm, I g- I roast you just
Joseph:enough that I think that you will, you know, change for the better.
Joseph:But it is always, again, wanting people to be better, you know?
Joseph:But I also looked at, at Seth and he's like, he says in there, "I've
Joseph:worked my whole life to get to a place where people can't do that to me."
Joseph:And it's like, you've worked your whole life to get to a place
Joseph:where people can't challenge you?
Joseph:You, one of the 1%?
Joseph:That's a really bad thing, I think.
Joseph:I don't know, you know?
Joseph:So the goal, I think, is, you know, we love movies and
Joseph:we love talking about them.
Joseph:We love talking about what's good in it, what's bad in it, and I think that
Joseph:because of our high standards, we can sometimes talk more about the negative
Joseph:than the positive, particularly because in the social media age, negative
Joseph:travels faster and we get, you know, more, uh, uh, we get- More clicks
Joseph:more attention- More engagement … from it.
Joseph:Yeah.
Joseph:Yeah, we get more engagement, more attention.
Joseph:Yeah.
Joseph:That is a real thing.
Joseph:It's not more so than your favorite political commentator or, you know,
Joseph:anyone else, but that is a danger that we have to- To worry about.
Joseph:But I do think also because Christians have been this sort of slowly marginalized
Joseph:subculture for a long time, And because the film critics have been
Joseph:mostly not Christians, we have gotten kinda used to having a reflexive, you
Joseph:know, "Oh, they just hate us," kinda thing, and, "They're just haters."
Joseph:Because it often has been the case.
Joseph:I mean, the fact that Passion of the Christ got 35% of Rotten Tomatoes, you
Joseph:know, or something like that when it came out is embarrassing- That's ridiculous
Joseph:For my industry, you know?
Joseph:Yeah.
Joseph:I mean, again, and that's not even, like, you know, if you… I could
Joseph:excuse it if Mel Gibson had already said his antisemitic comments and
Joseph:they were almost tainted by that.
Joseph:But it's like, no, this was all before that, that everybody
Joseph:was like, you know, trash.
Joseph:I was like, "This is, no, this is inexcusable.
Joseph:You can't be taken seriously." So it's not like there's no truth to
Joseph:it, but oftentimes, you know, as anybody who's been mistreated for a
Joseph:long time, everything becomes a nail.
Joseph:You know?
Joseph:It's like- That's right … you start to see everything that way instead of
Joseph:being able to discern the, "No, this is a case where someone's treating
Joseph:you unfairly, and this is something where someone's trying to help you."
Joseph:People who've been in, like, bad relationships oftentimes are like, they
Joseph:see even healthy accountability as, you know, as another sign of abuse.
Joseph:And it takes healing from that.
Joseph:And it takes people… And one of the things I have tried to do is be a faithful
Joseph:person in this space for a long time who has called out the good as well as the bad
Joseph:so people don't see me as just somebody who is trying to do this for hate.
Joseph:And I think that I've earned a lot of that credibility over
Joseph:time, at least I like to think so.
Matt:Oh, it sounds like you have, 100%.
Matt:And let's be honest, you know, you said earlier that the, the quality of the c-
Matt:of the faithatbased movie has improved.
Matt:I don't think that would've happened had filmmakers not
Matt:taken seriously the criticisms.
Matt:They, some- if the criticism is true, it's true, and it has been.
Matt:So you've kind of touched on a few of these reasons, but why do you think
Matt:it is that Christians do seem to have a hard time making films that, good
Matt:critics like yourself can appreciate?
Matt:You know, film critics who aren't judging the film based on its mission,
Matt:but rather its storytelling quality.
Matt:And I'm gonna make it harder too.
Matt:let's narrow this down to the non-biblical stories.
Matt:Leave out, you know, The Chosen, Passion of the Christ,
Matt:Daniel and the Fiery Furnace.
Matt:I mean, I mean- … stories about whether it be modern life or just,
Matt:just stories outside of the Bible i- in which, uh, God exists and people
Matt:are, are pursuing Christ, you know?
Matt:why, why do we do a bad job of that so often?
Matt:And, and do we do a bad job of that so often?
Joseph:I mean, I think we do do a bad job of that so often.
Joseph:I think that, again, it's another thing that's getting better.
Joseph:Again, I've highlighted the fact that I think two of the best, um, movies in
Joseph:that, excuse me, space that have come out in like the past, like couple years.
Joseph:Uh, Last Rodeo, by Angel Studios and, um, I Can Only Imagine 2, I think are really
Joseph:good examples of… I think Tyler Smith called it the, you know, um, Christian
Joseph:social drama, which is this whole, you know, this whole space of, "Hey, I'm just
Joseph:an ordinary person trying to live life.
Joseph:I believe in God, but I'm still suffering, bad things are happening.
Joseph:How do I wrestle with all this?" And I think that there's a lot of reasons.
Joseph:There's, there's stuff that, you know, if you, you, if I, if I have a couple of
Joseph:drinks and I'm really kinda like cranky, I can, you know, give that that like
Joseph:the snarky kind of, kind of reasons.
Joseph:But I think- Let's have that conversation.
Joseph:Exactly, yes.
Joseph:Sounds fun.
Joseph:I think that there's, I think that there is an aspect that people figured
Joseph:out a thing that worked in a space where a lot of things weren't working,
Joseph:and they just kept doing that thing.
Matt:Mm, I
Joseph:agree with that.
Joseph:And it was because one of the things, if you look at the history of kinda
Joseph:like movies that are meant to appeal to Christians and represent Christians
Joseph:throughout, you know, the hundred, you know, plus years of, of Hollywood, one
Joseph:of the things that- is consistent is that oftentimes both Christians and
Joseph:Hollywood people have tried to make movies that Christian audiences will
Joseph:watch, and it's always hit and miss.
Joseph:You can never quite figure it out.
Joseph:It's like, is the biblical blockbuster gonna be a hit with them or is it not?
Joseph:So when they figure it out , okay, the, you know, The Flywheel, the
Joseph:Facing the Giants, the Fireproof, those, you know, things, those
Joseph:worked as- The kendrick Brothers.
Joseph:Kendrick Brothers.
Joseph:Those worked as a genre and people would pay money to see them.
Joseph:There is an incentive within Hollywood to like, "Let's just make another
Joseph:Spider-Man movie. Like let's just make another thing that works." And so that
Joseph:kind of marketing limitation does hit against critical, you know, i- instincts.
Joseph:And so I think that there's that aspect going on there.
Joseph:And So I think it's like they figured out a formula that worked, and it was
Joseph:a formula that worked without really being punished for lack of quality.
Joseph:And that's the other thing.
Joseph:Again, when War Room is number one at the box office for a week, how
Joseph:much incentive is there for studios funding, uh, Christian products to
Joseph:say, "Well, we have to make this good or people are not gonna see it"?
Joseph:I think that there's that aspect of it, and I think that the audience
Joseph:that was primarily going to see Christian movies was more forgiving
Joseph:of quality if the message was good.
Joseph:And so I think that there was that kind of counter-incentive
Joseph:going on that made it difficult.
Joseph:The other thing is, just what I talked about earlier, Andy Erwin said, "Look,
Joseph:we were trying to do this outside of the Hollywood- Yeah … system
Joseph:without the training." And so…
Matt:Yeah.
Matt:It took us a couple decades to get there
Joseph:it took us a couple decades to get there.
Joseph:Yeah.
Joseph:And so, and, and there's a lot of reasons for that.
Joseph:I think that, you know, to some degree there's been, you know, it, in
Joseph:order to work in Hollywood it's one of those, it's a very cliquey place.
Joseph:And so you have to be someone that they kinda like, "Yeah, we vibe with you."
Joseph:You know?
Joseph:And, and there are both, you know, fairly and unfairly just kinda cultural
Joseph:differences between the, the, the kind of red state evangelical Christians.
Joseph:Even if you get politics out of it, if you never discuss politics at all- Just
Matt:culture in
Joseph:general … it's just kinda like, "Ah, I just don't vibe with them."
Matt:Yeah.
Joseph:You know, kind of thing that happens.
Joseph:And so a lot of people, you know, who do go into the Hollywood system
Joseph:end up kinda like just very much downplaying their Christian identity.
Joseph:Yep.
Joseph:It be, and, and kind of feeling absorbed in a way that Christians don't
Joseph:relate to them because that's kinda what they had to do i- in order to be
Joseph:successful there, even unintentionally.
Joseph:And then so the people who kind of did represent the kind of evangelical
Joseph:Christian, you know, majority culture who were wanting to see movies that
Joseph:represented them, um, just didn't do it within the Hollywood system.
Joseph:That's how it happened, and so they took 20 years for
Joseph:them to kind of figure it out.
Matt:Yeah.
Matt:So I think- The Hollywood system would've taught them how to make, how
Matt:to be good filmmakers, but the culture of the Hollywood system kept them out.
Matt:I mean, that's where I am.
Joseph:Yeah.
Joseph:I think that that's not an insignificant part of it.
Joseph:It's huge.
Joseph:And again, it doesn't mean that you didn't have- It didn't…
Joseph:Like, there were people who did it.
Joseph:Like Mel Gibson is somebody who was able to ride that line.
Matt:Right.
Joseph:But I think that the cultural forces were stacked against
Joseph:the majority of people doing that.
Matt:Totally agree.
Matt:And, and I'm gonna go back to something else you, you, you
Matt:brushed on a little bit too.
Matt:As a filmmaker myself, I partially blame the audience- Yeah
Matt:because the audience, like you said, got trained on the dramatized sermon.
Joseph:Yeah.
Matt:And I don't like the dramatized sermon.
Matt:It feels inauthentic to me.
Matt:The mission is not, in this case, more important than the story.
Matt:The story has to serve the mission, not just be a blanket for it.
Matt:Um, but audiences, if you tried to step outside of that in little
Matt:ways here or there and kind of show humanity as something more real, or
Matt:even, you know, that uh, remember Pure Flix, where everything has-
Matt:to be pure?
Matt:I'm like, have you read the Old Testament?
Matt:Yeah.
Matt:Like, we tried to live up to non-biblical standards of purity, and I think
Matt:that took away from the authenticity.
Matt:So I don't think that that was as much the filmmakers as it
Matt:was the filmmakers' response to what the audience was demanding.
Joseph:Oh, absolutely.
Joseph:The person in the, uh, '90s, 2000s, you know, and, and maybe since the
Joseph:Industrial Revolution- … who's most likely to go to church was a mom of kids.
Matt:Yeah.
Joseph:And so they're the most dedicated churchgoers, and therefore
Joseph:the most likely to go to see a movie that is made for a Christian audience,
Joseph:and to drag their families to see it.
Joseph:And I love my mom, but do you know what she loves to watch, is she
Joseph:likes to watch Hallmark movies.
Joseph:Hallmark.
Joseph:I
Matt:was gonna say Hallmark
Joseph:movies.
Joseph:Hallmark movies and, and murder mysteries.
Joseph:Which- Yeah … some Christian needs to get a- get, get on the whole murder
Joseph:mystery genre because- Yeah … that's a, I think, untapped potential.
Joseph:But- Well, there's a
Matt:show called Vindication, which you should watch.
Matt:It's-
Joseph:Yes.
Joseph:Oh, yes, absolutely.
Joseph:I'm, I'm hoping that that gets, more traction.
Joseph:Of course Christians movies are representing those kind of movies.
Joseph:And, uh, you know, and again, the Hallmark doesn't really, you know,
Joseph:care about the quality that much as long as it hits the formula.
Joseph:There's something- That's right … about that audience that forgives quality if it
Joseph:does, uh, hit the beats of the formula.
Joseph:And I've always said I don't mind those movies being made in the Christian space.
Joseph:My problem is that that's the only kind of movie that's being
Joseph:made in the Christian space.
Joseph:And I think that it has taken a long time, plus some interesting demographic
Joseph:changes, and I've talked about this in, in my work, where the demographics
Joseph:of Christianity and, are changing.
Joseph:And so it is a lot more kind of, you know, 30-year-old guys who end
Joseph:up being film critics, you know, who are kind of starting to become
Joseph:more attracted to Christianity.
Joseph:And that is starting to change the makeup of the kind of movies that are being made.
Joseph:I mean, the fact that, you know, it's, you know, bring back the
Joseph:biblical thing here, but, like, House of David is an Amazon show.
Joseph:The fact that, like, Young Washington is, like, a movie being promoted,
Joseph:you know, in, in this space.
Joseph:I think what we're seeing is a wider variety of these kinds of films as a part
Joseph:of this conversation, which I think in, in- Because again, our goal with Christian
Joseph:films is not to have a genre that's ours.
Matt:Right.
Joseph:Our goal is that the movies that our culture makes
Joseph:should reflect truth and beauty.
Joseph:Yes.
Joseph:And one of the most central true and beautiful things is our
Joseph:relationship with God as humans.
Joseph:Mm-hmm.
Joseph:And so we want all films to, to varying degrees, whether you're, you
Joseph:know, whether you're on the Tolkien side or the Lewis side in, on the
Joseph:spectrum of explicitness, all of them should be reflecting the truth of God.
Joseph:And part of the truth of God is God actually, people wrestling
Joseph:with their relationship with God.
Joseph:And so we want whatever genre it is, whether it's, you know, the inspirational
Joseph:drama, or whether it's the war movie, or it's the murder mystery, or it's the
Joseph:horror, or, you know, it… We want all of those to be reflecting the truth and
Joseph:beauty of God and the world He's made.
Joseph:And so I love that there's an expansion of what can be done by
Joseph:people who do actually believe in that.
Matt:Yeah.
Matt:And to filmmakers listening, just feel free to do all that,
Matt:uh, with nuance, with, uh, with authenticity and in subtext.
Joseph:Yes.
Matt:Let's talk about how, uh… Yeah, subtext is important, right?
Joseph:Yes.
Matt:So, uh, I wanna get us both in trouble for our last question
Matt:here, 'cause it's way more fun.
Matt:Um, and, and, and not in order to, to degrade anything, but
Matt:as a, just an exercise of how you look at different films.
Matt:So let's talk a little bit about a, a popular Faith-based Christian
Matt:film that you loved and why, and more importantly, I wanna know about
Matt:a popular faithatbased Christian film that you didn't love and why.
Matt:And let's just see what those standards are so that as filmmakers
Matt:we can all kinda take that in.
Matt:We don't have to necessarily agree or disagree with you, but we shouldn't… we
Matt:have to be not reflexive to, discount your opinions because you dared said something
Matt:about a story that had a good message.
Joseph:I already mentioned like, you know, I Can Only Imagine 2 I
Joseph:think is maybe the best of what the Christian inspirational drama
Joseph:genre has been thus far capable of.
Joseph:Because it really takes seriously the reality of most people's lives when you
Joseph:talk about the issue of, of suffering.
Joseph:Because, you know, for most people aren't suffering in our lives and
Joseph:then God kind of rescues us out of it.
Joseph:That does happen sometimes.
Joseph:But oftentimes what happens is that God helps us to find ways
Joseph:to find redemption and create redemption within that suffering.
Joseph:And so I love the fact that they begin their story, it's the sequel to this,
Joseph:movie where, you know, he's able to forgive his father and get all his
Joseph:dreams, and then immediately he gets all his dreams and then his son, he
Joseph:finds out, has a debilitating, you know, disease, a version of diabetes.
Joseph:And it's like, oh, my son for the rest of his life I'm gonna have to
Joseph:deal with him, could die any day if he doesn't do everything right.
Joseph:And so that causes him to have to figure out, how do I have a good
Joseph:relationship with my son while still protecting him from this?
Joseph:And also having never had my father, um, taught me how to be a good dad, and
Joseph:so this kind of inverse kind of thing.
Joseph:And learning as an artist to express that in a healthy way and express, do
Joseph:that with his family in a healthy way.
Joseph:All of those things I thought were incredibly both complex, and it has this
Joseph:issue be text but also subtext, and just showing the characters being humans.
Joseph:Again, when they're showing them on the bus on tour.
Joseph:Just these guys, kind of like how guys relate to each other when they're stuck
Joseph:together for a whole bunch of time.
Joseph:And how real Christians wrestle through how do I interpret what's going on
Joseph:in my life, and how do I repair these relationships, or how do I move these
Joseph:relations- so how are we as humans not necessarily always just waiting on God
Joseph:to take us out of the circumstances, but how we are finding how are we being
Joseph:salt and light, how are we building the kingdom, uh, and repairing the world as
Joseph:part of His plan in these situations.
Joseph:I just thought that that was a really beautiful, expression of that.
Matt:And by the way, I'm gonna pause you before you go
Matt:into the one you didn't like.
Matt:Filmmakers, listen to what he just said.
Matt:That is how you want a critic to talk about your story and your film.
Joseph:yeah, if you were saying, "Okay, I'm a faithatbased person,
Joseph:I want to see how is it that you can get an obnoxious film critic-
Joseph:who has bashed all of my favorite Christian films to say something positive
Joseph:about my film?" Watch that movie.
Joseph:And- Yeah … compare it to movies that don't do it as well.
Joseph:Um-
Matt:Film literacy's important.
Joseph:Yes, exactly.
Joseph:I'm trying to think of, like, a good, like, exact comp of this.
Joseph:Um, I think I would say Lifemark is one of the worst faithatbased
Joseph:movies I've ever seen.
Joseph:And one of the- I didn't see
Matt:that one.
Matt:I didn't-
Joseph:It was another Kendrick Brothers one.
Joseph:Oh.
Joseph:And, uh, but it was one about… Well, they produced it.
Joseph:They didn't direct it was about a guy who finds out that he was
Joseph:adopted because, uh, his, you know, mother, who was encouraged to abort
Joseph:him, didn't, and chose life instead.
Joseph:And so then he kind of goes and has a visit with her.
Joseph:And the thing is, it's one of those movies, tell you to watch it
Joseph:and see if I'm wrong about this.
Joseph:Every single time a moment of conflict could happen, they immediately resolve it.
Joseph:You know, the, the son is- You can't hang on
Matt:to conflict
Joseph:in a Christian
Matt:movie- You can't
Matt:because Jesus.
Joseph:Yeah, exactly.
Joseph:And one of the things I wrote about it that I thought was so damaging,
Joseph:and people actually got mad at me for this, and we discussed it in the
Joseph:comments a little bit- is that I said this is incredibly harmful to show
Joseph:a young man going through incredibly difficult circumstances and present the
Joseph:ideal as he doesn't wrestle with it.
Skip:Mm.
Joseph:That he doesn't feel angry, that he doesn't get to feel betrayed,
Joseph:that he doesn't get to feel, you know, that these normal human emotions,
Joseph:and that's okay to walk through them.
Joseph:Even of course, we know it's all gonna get repaired and happy and stuff like
Joseph:that, but you don't let that process go through because that's really,
Joseph:that's really, um, delegitimizing for people who are going through this- Yeah
Joseph:and feeling like they can't express their negative feelings in their
Joseph:Christian families because there's this expectation that if you're
Joseph:healthy, you won't go through that.
Joseph:Right.
Joseph:And I have to say, and I love you guys, but I had these Christian moms
Joseph:in my comments saying, you know, "Oh, that's not true. My family is exactly
Joseph:like this family that's portrayed."
Joseph:You want it to be.
Joseph:And then I would have young men message me and say, "Thank you for saying that-
Joseph:Yeah … because I don't feel like I can express this oftentimes in my
Joseph:circumstances." And so that to me was just said everything about what the
Joseph:Cr- what the audience was incentivizing Christians to do and be- Yeah
Joseph:and what we need to do instead
Matt:It's almost like a lot of these Christian movies that don't hit the mark
Matt:are trying to basically be the movie version of how a lot of ladies portray
Matt:their own family lives on Instagram.
Joseph:Yes.
Joseph:Oh, that's a good example.
Joseph:I don't know if you ever… There's a, episode of the show Hey Arnold!
Joseph:where a teacher, like, does a play about his family that's this idealized
Joseph:version, and it sucks as a play.
Joseph:Yeah.
Joseph:But then you actually see his family in real life, and it's this
Joseph:really unhealthy, toxic family.
Joseph:Yeah.
Joseph:And there's a certain part of you that's like, "Okay, I get what he's doing. He's
Joseph:trying to do what he wish was true."
Joseph:Right.
Joseph:But-
Matt:That's
Joseph:not our job … it's not actually helping.
Joseph:Yeah.
Matt:Yeah, that's not our, job.
Matt:I mean, it's not even theologically justified, if you ask me.
Matt:You know what the word Israel means, right?
Joseph:Wrestles with God.
Matt:Yes.
Matt:He who wrestles with God.
Joseph:Like- And do you know what Islam is?
Joseph:Submits to God.
Joseph:But we'll leave that one aside.
Matt:That's a different discussion- … for sure.
Matt:Um, well man, listen, I don't wanna take any more of your time today, but
Matt:this has been such an enlightening conversation, such a fun conversation.
Matt:Um, I, I, I started watching some of your podcasts, Overthinking, and I
Matt:encourage others to do so as well.
Matt:Some really good conversations about culture in there, and
Matt:some surprising conversations.
Matt:So, uh, w- where can people find you?
Joseph:Yeah.
Joseph:They can find me certainly on my Linktree where that has lists to all my places,
Joseph:like my website, josephholmesstudios.com, and all the places I write for.
Joseph:I write regularly for World Magazine and Religion Unplugged, but I also
Joseph:do things in other places as well.
Joseph:Also, of course, you can find The Overthinkers on, you know, Apple Podcasts,
Joseph:wherever podcasts are and, and sold.
Joseph:We do clips of them on my, TikTok channel as well.
Joseph:You can see various things we have there.
Joseph:Yeah, thank you so much, Matt, for this conversation.
Joseph:This was a lot of fun.
Matt:This has been great.
Matt:Thank you for joining us.
Matt:Joseph Holmes on the Faith and Family Film Festival podcast.
